Assuming What She Not Said
2005.07.20 1:27

Eri; 'You are strange.' Mer; 'I might be strange.' Eri; 'No no you are.'
Am I strange to be eager to make love to foreigners, strange to be wanting my girlfriend to have babies?
Eri; 'You yourself haven't noticed yet though you are representing one of typical Japanese, I am not sure you're working three or four companies. What was your last night saying, pretending to be descent because I am working still in an office at 0:47 am? Crazy!'
According to her I am strange in that - I like foreign girls and I like my partner to have babies. But I am not the exception from typical Japanese -always work work work.
Her comment on me must be derived from her limited experiences. But in a sense it - the remark to my attitude to work -gets to the point.
I'm not working because I like working. Maybe many other Japanese people don't, either.
But her remarks on who to love and who I want to have my kid are irrelevant. I love her, no matter who she is. that's a matter of personal preference. And if someone really love somebody it stands to apparent reason that he wants her to have their kids.
I can see something from what she not said. Silence tells much more than eloquence.
Though I shall attempt again to have her pregnant.